By Roger Libby|2022-10-30T15:40:58+00:00October 30th, 2022|Categories: Sex Therapy|Comments Off on The Healthy Joy of Masturbation
Self-pleasuring is essential for the total appreciation of orgasms with others. Those who do not get aroused by themselves and/or with others for long periods of time may lose the capacity to be aroused. Sex researchers Masters and Johnson concluded that you either use it or lose it. The genitals must be stimulated, or you lose the capacity to be aroused!
Sexual pleasure has been limited by Supreme Court and legislative mandates nationally and state-wide. Women’s right to choose with their own bodies, the lack of separation of church and state and the right-wing shift in the Supreme Court combine to limit sexual freedom. This is not a good thing.
By Roger Libby|2021-11-18T01:06:05+00:00November 10th, 2021|Categories: Sex Therapy|Comments Off on Unhealthy Incest Themes in Porn
There are plenty of studies about incest. Incest is not a behavior that should be normalized through the eyes of unbalanced pornographers. Porn actors act out these scenes, but I wonder if they feel they are in any way contributing to a balanced view of sex or relationships. My guess is they rationalize that it is just a fantasy, and so it cannot be taken seriously.
By Roger Libby|2021-11-18T01:10:03+00:00October 26th, 2021|Categories: Couples Counseling|Comments Off on Do You Prioritize Solving Relationship and Sexual Problems?
Every week I get calls and email inquiring about how I design a treatment plan for relationship and sexual problems. I see each person separately and immediately I see the couple together in a three-hour block.
It is common to exclaim that physical attraction is the motivating factor for dating and having sex with a new person. Although how we look influences who we are attracted to, our unique smells in the hair in our bodies is the main attractant. The smells are called pheromones. All animals seem to have them.